Eczema? This was a few weeks ago after an unexplained flare up. The hardest part about all of this is not knowing.

My problem is I feel like I did this to him. It really is heart breaking. I shouldn’t have eaten this while pregnant or taken that or done this… At least this newest doctor tells me nothing I could’ve done its in our genes… Although I might’ve done something right by avoiding his shots.

While I’m not anti vaccines I did not vaccinate my children. Had I not had complications during pregnancy and had healthy children yes I probably would’ve done the shots. Only I have children with compromised immune systems.

Eczema is a blanket answer even if it is an answer. It’s used to describe the allergic reaction or something unknown. Because it could be anything it is very hard to cure.

The bandaid cure is steroids. I feel bad for those parents that trust the doctors so willingly. Steroids will (hopefully unless your Jace) clear the reaction. However it doesn’t actually clear the allergy. It suppresses it deeper into the child’s body so he or she will have complications later on in life.

A couple at my daughters dance class has a boy Jace’s age. He too was diagnosed with eczema. Only his parents use steroid cream. It sounds like they have to use it pretty regularly. If they don’t use it the rashes will come back. I feel bad for them. Obviously their child is allergic to something or is having complications with something… So scary the long term effects it will have.

The weird part is the glossed over look he gets in his eyes when it happens. You can’t tell in this photo but its heart breaking to watch as the hives or red tiny bumps slowly spread. You can literally see them spreading. This was after feeding which I may have narrowed it down to Coconut. So at least we are off coconut.